Remember: all the time. Two-year-old, happily playing with the other children in the sandbox, will not consider someone as a potential friend or girlfriend he's too young for this. Accordingly, senseless will be the advice of parents: "would You be friends with Petya, he's so well behaved and calm!" or "be Friends with Dolly, such a good girl!" The kid just didn't know what he should do. But to tell him about the friendship it is necessary!
Read stories and nursery rhymes, watching cartoons with the child, which says about friendship. This is to ensure that the baby's head appeared a clear thought: Friendship is good! Let him remember the word and its mention will get positive emotions, because this is very important.
Three-year-old baby can more or less clearly determined: who he wants to be friends with and who - no. At this stage, show tact and patience, remembering that the logic of an adult and a child are completely different things. For example, situation: your child wants to be friends with good, kind boy, because of a defect. And a child answers the question "Why is he not friendly?" - "Because he's ugly!"
Gently but firmly reassure the child that moral values have nothing to do with appearance. There will some kind of cautionary tale (like the "Ugly duckling"), the parable or story of life.
When you become a little older, be sure to explain to him, what is the value of true friendship. The task of moms and dads – to convince his offspring that other have to help, to share with him, to keep from bad behavior. Not asking anything in return, without asking the question: "what do I have?". Then the other will come with him in the same way.
Advice 2: How to raise a good child
Kind and caring the child is the pride of parents. To bring up the baby kind and considerate towards other people quite possibly, but it should be done from early childhood.
Explain to the kid why some choices are good and others are bad. Swipe the conversation to the topic of kindness, friendship and compassion. Tell him that there are good and bad people and that good can be much nicer. But remember that all conversations will be useless without the personal example of parents. The kid needs to see that you care about each other, sincerely sympathize with the victims and to the best of my ability try to help them.
Read the child instructive stories, poems and tales, where the hero performs good deeds and protect the weak, good always wins and evil is punished. Once your child is old Soviet cartoons, which clearly reveal the themes of friendship and kindness.
Contact with Pets is very beneficial for the upbringing and development of children have positive qualities of character. When the kid grows up, entrust him to the care of the pet. In addition to kindness and friendship, caring for Pets help to form a child's sense of responsibility and compassion. If living conditions do not allow you to keep animals at home, take your child to a shelter, where live stray dogs and cats and take patronage over one of the Pets.
Be sure to praise the kid for a good deed or provided assistance to others. Bad actions also do not overlook, be sure to tell your child that you are distressed by such behavior and explain why you can't do that.
Often hug and kiss their children, they need to feel the affection, love and care of their parents. The child needs to be confident that mom and dad in case of need will always come to their aid. In families, where we value a good attitude to each other, children are less likely to grow up angry and aggressive. So, if you want to raise a good and kind child, do not skimp on the positive actions and emotions!