To remove yourself from the ban list for another user, make the link http://vkontakte.ru/settings.php?act=delFromBlackList&id=**** where **** - your id. Then send it to the person who made you into the black list. To do this from your page, of course, you don't, better sign up under another name or ask them to make it one of your friends. Your task is to ensure that the user passed on this link, for this you need interest him. Add to the link text, for example, as follows: "And where are you?" or "Look, what about you write!". If a user passes the link, you will automatically retire from his ban list and will have the opportunity to view his page and send him messages.
To remove yourself from the blacklist (ban-list) group, make the link http://vkontakte.ru/groups.php?act=unban&gid=XXXX&id=**** where XXXX is the group id, and **** - your id. Then send it to the supervisor. To do this from your page, of course, you don't, better sign up under another name or ask them to make it one of your friends. To interest the administrator add to the intriguing link text, for example: "have you seen what you write about your group?" or something else, as long as it has pushed the head (administrator) group to link to. As soon as he does, you will be automatically removed from the blacklist group and will have the opportunity to go in and view all the necessary information for you.
If you believe that you have been added to the ban list unfairly, first contact the group administrator to determine the reason why you got there. Perhaps your page was accessed scams that it sent spam or remarks obscene nature, to which you have no relationship. If the situation becomes clearer, the group administrator will remove you from the blacklist on a voluntary basis.