Psychology of expectations – not the easiest thing. No matter what are you waiting for: true love, a raise at work, the warm summer in order to rest – in any case, first try to realize one simple thing. Life is what is happening today. All that was before is in the past. What will happen then is yet to come. You only have today, the present moment. And you dedicate it to the barren process of painful waiting. Start living instead of waiting, hoping, something will force you to do it in the future. Do what you like.
If you have a specific dream, try to implement it. Usually people are afraid to even start, believing that their dream is so complex that they can't achieve it. And someone even does not ask himself such a question, it's just a dream – and let it be somewhere far away, because waiting is such a convenient way to escape from reality! But try at least to take up the case.
The first thing to break a large and complex goal that really is able to strike terror, into simpler steps. Each of them must be such that it was clear how to implement it. If the steps are too complex, break them. Need to the realization of the goal appeared in a tangible form, for you to understand how to approach the matter and to take him to implement his plan. And start! No need to wait.
It happens that a person expects in his life will appear someone that could change everything. It will be a new and true love, as it should be. But someone else wants to, that will return the person does not have a relationship in the past. This expectation is absolutely not useful. It is exhausting, depressing and unnerving. Instead to indulge in fruitless dreams, take care of yourself. Find a hobby, become more alive and interesting person. If you are in their place and doing their job, life itself will develop so that the most similar temperament people are near to you.
If you are waiting for the resolution of any complex situation, all the time I doubt that happens, and sometimes it seems that everything has become like a tangled knot that can't unravel, try to cut it, finding a simple solution. Find out all you care about. As is often the expectation is delayed only because people are unsure of anything and are afraid to at least try to change that. Ask about what's going on is normal. To allow someone to mess with your head, forcing you to wait is not clear why – that should not be allowed.
Advice 2: How to stop waiting for love
Love is a wonderful feeling that brings a lot of positive emotions. But this experience only lovers halves. For those who is searching, waiting can be very painful and even leading to despair. Not to rush into extremes, and get rid of not always rosy thoughts, you need to stop waiting love. Understand that the heart itself will choose who he's nice.
Keep it simple. No need to constantly torment myself with the thought of being alone. Wasting time on useless lamentations, you risk missing the real thing. Because the person who engaged in their experiences, may not notice that there were someone worthy of attention. Just learn to look at life positively. Meet friends, attend parties and other events. And maybe the wish will come true unexpectedly. You can get acquainted with the beloved (beloved) accidentally, for example while visiting. This coincidence is not uncommon. Most importantly, do not despair for lack of love.
Find yourself a hobby. A pastime can be quite varied: read books, draw pictures, sew, embroider, collect models, prepare meals, hunt, fish, etc. If you like my work, then it will be a good hobby. The activity will give the opportunity to direct the energy in a useful direction, and not to dwell on problems. Passionate about people usually think only about his "passion". In this situation, about love and you can forget all. But it's still about feelings sometimes to remember. Because they make life bright and saturated raznoobraznymi emotions.
Revise their ideals. Sometimes people can feel lonely, but until old age will have to wait for Prince (Princess). Unfortunately, people are not perfect. All have any disadvantages. With this fact you must accept. Excessive requirements can scare not only those who you like, but all the others. And it is possible that forgetting the inflated requests, you will meet someone you will get along well.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. This does not mean you have to rush into the arms of the first comer person. But sometimes to find the real feeling, only having a bad experience. In addition, it will help in the future more carefully to concern the second half.