Advice 1: What if his wife fell in love with another

Unfortunately, not all marriages are durable. Love between spouses may fade. Is that the reason for the dissolution of Union is the love of the wife for another man.
In such situations, the husband may ask questions about what he did wrong, why his wife loved another guy, if I were to save the family. Misunderstanding and resentment towards his wife, understandable feelings. In order to get out of this situation, you need to understand the situation and their own feelings.

Talk to your wife



It is not necessary to get away from problems and pretend that nothing happened. At the same time, rolling his wife scandal because of her feelings for the other man also out. Better to calmly discuss the situation together.

Of course, to deal with emotions and tune in to constructive conversation in this case is very difficult. But understand that your wife is not a thing and not a robot. The fact that she loved another, could happen totally against her will. Respect her choice and appreciate the fact that she found the courage to be honest and decent towards you. Your woman opened all the cards and not beginning to lead a double life, tricking you. At least for that it can thank.

Be patient and listen to the position of his wife. Maybe her story will help you make useful conclusions and adjust their own behavior in the future. Perhaps your spouse say that your marriage was wrong or how your behavior pushed her away.
Of course, it would be better to discuss problems at the time, but take this situation for granted, and remove from it at least some benefit.


Check out the feelings



Maybe the situation have not gone away, and your spouse is deceived in his feelings. If you don't want to lose her, try to save your marriage. Pay more attention to your wife, give her flowers. Invite your spouse in a restaurant or theater, organize a trip to the country in which she had long wanted to visit.

Perhaps this is not the end of your love, and of a crisis. How well you will cope with this challenge largely depends on your sensitivity and patience. Make excitement and variety in your love life, give compliments and gifts, make surprises for my wife.
Show your wife that you need it. Prove that you love her and try to awaken her feelings.


Release spouse



If your efforts have not led to result, can only let go of his wife. Understand that your relationship has changed forever. By force you will not keep the woman he loves. Don't blame her for what happened and don't beat yourself up over her leaving.

From what you break up is not civilized, and scandal, no one will win. It is unlikely you will be friends in the future, but to save any human relationship worth it.

Advice 2: What if he loved another

Even a happy marriage can break up, if your wife met another woman, and that you are not to blame. What to do in this case – just to try to keep a spouse or to let him go to the new love – every woman needs to decide this, taking into account the recommendations of psychologists.
Even happy marriages tend to break down, and if her husband loved another, don't blame the incident on himself or a loved one. How to reverse the situation, in this case, what to do, and whether to "save" the family, to decide not you. Try to call the wife for a serious honest conversation, comfort in communicating beyond the tact and courtesy. With my husband it is better to talk calmly, without accusations, grandiose scandals, and without raising my voice, forgetting about the profanity. A serious and calm conversation will allow you to learn its future intentions and to determine what actions should be performed.

In the event that when a spouse fell in love with another woman, use my feminine wiles, finding out from a man, very carefully, what he is attracted to your opponent. But excessive persistence in questions and further rudeness on your part will only lead to failure, so you need to act cleverly. If you can understand why having lived together happy years favorite people warm to you and began to look for a new passion, you will get a chance to stitch a family, changing the situation in their favor. Even if you are the perfect wife, try to be a little better, using in practice the qualities of your opponent.

But if the husband has loved another truly, and strives to create a family with new love, keep him next to me just pointless. Let go of a loved one, do not start squabbling during the breakup, and do not try to arrange some "serious conversations" and scandals with his new lover – such actions you only drop your credibility in the eyes of the husband, almost ex. Show him that you are attractive and happy, you are a real person and could easily live without it.

Divorce better serve yourself by showing your spouse that you do not intend to keep him, even though it hurts. And then try to unwind, throw a party for your girlfriends, go to the theatre or cinema, sign up for classes at a fitness club, do some shopping, change the appearance in a beauty salon. Maybe the years of the marriage, which seemed so happy, you just lost track of him, forgetting that you are not only a wife but also a person? Deleted from the memory of the husband of the traitor, remember the negative sides of his character, mentally razreshite the shortcomings of the former spouse in the brightest colors and you will definitely become easier.
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