If you find it difficult to come up with a topic, do not despair. There are themes that unite all the people in the world. Remember them and communication with a new guy can be fun for both of you. If all the same there was a pause in the conversation, do not worry, do not trouble clothes and keep your eyes. Take a few deep breaths and relax. Sometimes silence helps only to feel even more nascent feeling. This is the best sign that you are well together, and without a flow of words. However, in order to establish contact, we can safely adhere to in conversation the following topics.

Leading questions

You have previously corresponded or discussed the history of personal life? Great! Ask additional questions which will help to develop the theme of family, school or work. First, such conversations help you learn more about each other, and secondly, these themes bring together the interlocutors.

What's going on in the world?

A guy can safely discuss events in the country and the world, as well as news from the life of stars. You may find that you like the same band. Just don't go into politics - it's one of those things.

Ask for guidance

Men love to dominate. They think they know everything about everything. If you want to bond with the guy, ask for his help, be it study, work or personal concerns. Let him feel strong and smart. Thus you'll let him know I trust his opinion.

How was your day?

This is the most simple and unobtrusive question. It is universal, like new relationships and family life. At the beginning of every story, everything seems new and interesting. Talking about the events of the day will not be boring for you. Moreover, this conversation usually involves a lot of other topics.


Find out if the guy has any Hobbies and show sincere interest in what he says. After all, what he likes, of course, important to him.


What he wants, what he wants from this life? Guys love to plan for life. Learn about them and gently suggest ways of achieving his dreams. Believe me, finding the right words, you can have confidence in that guy, which means he'll want to hear your advice in the future.


Guys love to fool around. A little flirting into the conversation can not hurt. However, you need to feel when to stop so as not to seem vulgar and vulgar. Choose your moment and ask a few naughty questions about his fantasies and about whether he finds you attractive. Such a conversation could take place even if you are communicating via SMS or social networks.


Friends occupy an important place in every man's heart. Show interest in this aspect of his life. Maybe he wants to tell a few funny stories or even introduce you to friends. By the way, when you meet them, remind one of the anecdotes from their friendship. You will be able to laugh at him, it will set his friends positively towards you and your guy will Shine with pride for you.

Games and machines

Perhaps it's a cliché, but, nevertheless, most of the guys really knows a lot about games or cars. Just don't try to talk about what you don't know. You can get fooled and look stupid. Just try to find out what video games he likes and if he has a car. Small details will help you get to know whether you have common interests.

Do you see a future?

Asking a question, try and themselves to give an answer. Offering a topic for conversation, be prepared to open up. In a new relationship it is important as early as possible to find out, whether the partners to each other. If you don't have anything in common, it is worth to spend time on such communication?