What mesyatsa stuff may not be evident what is truly valuable, therefore, you first need to "clean up" your life from garbage. How? Perform General cleaning in the house, put things in order. People living in a gloomy and cluttered room, he feels so gloomy and "cluttered". About what love there can be a speech?
Discuss mutual claims to each other. Not in the form of scandal, of course, and through peaceful and friendly dialogue. Talk about possible solutions to the problem. If your spouse you are dissatisfied with something, consider how you can rectify the situation. If the behavior of a spouse is something you are not satisfied, calmly tell him that. Claim must be very specific.
New vpechatleniyami order in the house and in the relations induced can be looking for fresh impressions. Go together to the cinema, theater in the woods for a picnic; hike if you are Hiking. Take along something that would make your life variety. If it is winter time and you're not shy about prying eyes, leave the yard and make a snowman finally. Probably because you have had a lot of common Hobbies, just for you the daily hustle and bustle as some of them forgotten.
Memories will beamspace about the Genesis of your relationship. It is important to remember only the good, not to dig in old grievances. Revise the old photos. Look in the closet those things in which you walked at the beginning of your novel. Remember your common friends and acquaintances. If possible, invite them to visit (the order anyway already fallen?).
Sexeso you lack passion and diversity in intimate life, just try some time to abstain from sex (of course, agreeing beforehand with the partner). Do not turn sex into a routine chore.
Advice 2: How to return the fading feelings
When people are together for years, they often begin to realize that their feelings fade away. Sometimes it is noticeable only to one partner, and the second are satisfied, but in any case to save the relationship you need to try to renew your feelings.
Remember the beginning of your relationship. Try to feel the love because passion is a feeling that needs constant support. Remember the old days when you nights wandering around the city holding hands. Visit the place first date and your favorite cafes and restaurants. This will help to restore your love.
Spend more time together. Life contributes to the disappearance of feelings of love and passion, so it's important to find time to do things together, because it helps to establish a trusting relationship with each other. For example, arrange a small picnic for two.
Appreciate your partner. Remember how important to you spouse. Think about what you are to him/her once loved. Your partner will feel this attitude and will reciprocate, thus the affection towards each other will increase.
Be proud of each other. First, the success of spouse depends on you, because thanks to your support, he/she managed to reach unprecedented heights. And secondly, respect for the partner's progress will help to keep warm feelings for years to come.
Do pleasant surprises of the second half. Only one thought about what you've tried so hard to make happy your soulmate, give an excuse to the spouse to fall in love with you again.
Communicate with each other. Don't forget that the majority of conflicts is due to the fact that the couple can't communicate. Do not attempt to make normal conversation sessions of psychoanalysis, just try easy and with humor to tell about the day and to share plans for the coming week.
Remember that to revive extinct feelings is very difficult, so you need to have an occasional romantic evening to keep your senses in good shape.